Sick of Being only a Tool to the other Person?
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Don't you just hate it when you know somebody for a while, but turns out they're only using you?.
What is having an authentic relationship?
Well, in every form of relationship, whether that is with a girlfriend, friends or even anybody, there must be an exchange of value.
When somebody is bestowing away more value than is being received, they will feel like they are being used; and those who are taking those values without offering any value in return, are value-cravers; they constantly crave things from other people, and that is the biggest reason they want to be in your presence.
However, if you don't have any value to present people, they don't really want anything to do with you.
The key is to make sure whoever you're hanging out with isn't using you, give value that is slightly higher than what they are reciprocate you back.
If they aren't reciprocating any value back in the first place, just give them slightly above nothing, and don't bother giving any more when they ask for more. That's the boundary you have in place.
Usually the biggest signs you can tell if you're dealing with value-cravers, who constantly ask for things without giving anything in return, is that they tend to be unreliable and unreciprocal. When you actually need them, they vanish from you and only reappear when they want what you have to offer again.
We all heard the story of how somebody was using the other person because they have more assets and connections, and those are tangible values; however, you want to offer intangible values, the positive exchange of emotional values.
Think about this, if you don't have any asset or tangible values they're seeking, but they really take pleasure in being in your presence because they get this positive energy from you and that you offer great stimuli to them which make them feel great, they can't wait to be around you again.
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